Hiya! I’m Jenn Whitmer. You’ve come over to the About page, so you’re likely wondering a little bit, who is this woman? And how can she help me?

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So glad you asked! Mostly because I love questions. Big questions lead to big dreams, big ideas, and big living.

And I know questions can be scary. I've sat stuck in that ugly cry (you know the one? Have you been there?) and wondered...what if I can't do this?

Here's what I need you to know...you can do it.

Step one: Grow in self-awareness. I've always loved a good personality tool, but I went all in on using the Enneagram. Because of all the tools I've used (MBTI, Strengths, DISC, Kolbe), I've seen the Enneagram as the most effective in bringing the most power and the most peace.

Step two: Grow in communication and conflict resolution skills. I've always been a talker, but I learned that your leadership — and all your relationships — will rise and fall on your ability to handle communicate effectively and solve conflict.

And I'm here to help you be that confident leader living a peaceful and flourishing life. In addition to serving in leadership roles, I've completed extensive training in communication, conflict resolution, and the Enneagram. I have master's certification in theology and leadership and education. I hold a Master of Arts in Communication and Culture as well as certification as an Enneagram coach.

Let's do some big living together.


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Executive event producer

No one has more energy than Jenn. She recently emceed and spoke at a 2-day conference for women leaders in agriculture and was amazing! Jenn does a wonderful job keeping participants on task and the meeting on schedule. Her presentation gave participants a quick self-assessment of their conflict style and provided them the tools and easy steps to help navigate difficult conversations. Authentic and effective, Jenn’s expertise stays with the audience because she truly connects with them as people.

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health care leader

I had a poor distinction between home and work life, frustration with the management of both. After our Enneagram training in the Catalyst Leadership Lab, I improved my confidence, understanding how I was leading in both areas, and I was able to set more reasonable expectations on myself and others.

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executive assistant

Jenn is the perfect mixture of kind and honest. She makes you feel safe to learn. Coaching with Jenn has transformed my relationship with husband and helped me reach the next level in my career.

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hospitality director

Jenn Whitmer is an interactive and engaging speaker, even in our virtual training platform. Jenn's workshop on conflict resolution was perfect for our managers. Our managers learned how to identify their own conflict style, myths about conflict, and actual phrases to use when dealing with conflict. She did exercises with the group on the spot and even provided free downloadable material at the end. One of the comments from our managers, “I wish I would have learned this 10 years ago!”

I highly recommend Jenn as a speaker.

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Seven-figure entrepreneur

Jenn was a speaker in my business coaching program and absolutely blew it out of the park. She was so incredible and impactful for my students in helping them integrate the Enneagram with their business and truly understand their clients from a different perspective. Jenn was also a guest on my podcast and really taught the Enneagram in a way that was simple, understandable, and highly actionable. When this information is used powerfully it can truly change your life, and Jenn teaches it in a way that's not just "good to know" but easily applied! I couldn't recommend her more!

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online business leader

When I put the Enneagram training to work, I found the ability to notice my own questions, use my natural gifts to grow my team, and create new options for my teen boys. My new effectiveness earned me a top-tier corporate trip with my company!

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Nonprofit leader

Our team tends to get deep in the weeds with our work and badly needed this training to connect us and encourage us to get to know ourselves and one another better. Jenn conducted an upbeat, positive, and extremely informational session introducing us to the Enneagram. Her knowledge and engaging style kept everyone's attention and gave us the means to do some self-discovery and identify our motivations. We're excited to continue to learn more and refer back to what she shared often. Definitely recommend bringing Jenn to your team.

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Leadership is serious business. And it starts by leading yourself. Sometimes growing in self-awareness can get a little, well, heavy. I walk you through serious growth with a lightness that leads to joy. You were meant to live a confident and peaceful live.




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Master of Arts in communication and culture
Graduate certificate in music education
Graduate certificate in theology and leadership
YEC certified Enneagram coach
20+ years of leadership experience in education nonprofit organizations.

You are meant to flourish. I'm here to give the skills to get there.

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The Enneagram is a deceptively simple wisdom tool. When you start applying the Enneagram in your life, its depth will transform your life and relationships.

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Healthy leadership requires ruthless self-honesty and generous self-compassion. When we bring things into the light, then we can bring about change.

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